Today was a particularly muggy day and I chuckled when I saw the text of my clever feline friend, Pip, cooling himself on an ice pack, while sailing down the Delaware Bay. I was reminded of this. I was coaching one of my Super Stars a while back (all clients are super stars…they hire a coach in order to connect with their Super Stardom!) around a breakup with his Love Interest. They were perfect together, he said…similar interests, great sex! All was right with the world. That is, until Love Interest decided to give her ex “one last chance” to be the person that she thought he could be in her life. She hadn’t wanted to waste the x number of years she had invested in the relationship with ex. Super Star was devastated. ..he was convinced that no one could make Love Interest as happy as he himself could.